DISCOVER THE SECRET TO
Transform Your Relationship from Disconnected to Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love That You Deserve in Just 28 Days
...even if you’ve tried everything while feeling stuck in a reactive cycle with nothing creating lasting change.
DISCOVER THE SECRET TO
Transform Your Relationship from Disconnected to Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love That You Deserve in Just 28 Days
...even if you’ve tried everything while feeling stuck in a reactive cycle with nothing creating lasting change.
Remember when your relationship used to….
But lately (or for the last several months or even years) you’re in the kind of relationship you never thought you’d end up in.
Disconnected, unfulfilling, hurtful, heart-aching, "we're fine" zone...
There's a growing distance between you and your partner. You might be:
Dreaming of racing hearts and being held in steamy, wild passion only to wake in the night feeling frozen by the lack of depth and intimacy still between you.
Struggling to talk without it leading to hurtful, heated arguments that ruin the entire day, date or holiday.
Can’t plan date nights or holidays as your partner and/or you are too ‘busy’.
Feeling ‘alone together’, not being truly understood.
Having the same conversations, while seeing little to no change that swiftly snaps back to old ways.
Putting more than your share into nurturing the ‘relationship’ & homelife, leaving you unsupported, unappreciated or taken for granted.
Longing for more warm hugs, long kisses and 1:1 tender touch but don’t know how to make it happen and keep it coming!
Worried to the pit of your stomach that your relationship is stagnating, burning out or falling apart.
This impacts you being the partner, person, even (future) parent you want to be.
AND you can’t figure out the answer to truly solve your core relationship problem for good.
You might think it's normal to feel disconnected in a long-term relationship…
- Shouldn't ‘love’ be enough to keep us going, it’s normal to be at each other, not feeling understood or appreciated?
- It’s busy work and family life, right. It’s normal to have no intimacy and ‘us’ time now?
- We’ve been together for ages, it’s normal to feel ‘alone together’ or like roommates now isn’t it?
But this is not NORMAL. It can't be, can it?
But this is not NORMAL.
It can't be, can it?
You’re absolutely right!
IT IS NOT NORMAL!
Everything you’ve tried so far has probably made you feel like nothing works, or worse yet; like something’s wrong with you.
You’ve tried so many things that haven’t helped
You’ve tried so many things that haven’t helped
- Date nights, romantic getaways - perfect opportunities to be together but arguments erupt and ruin the entire time.
- Podcasts, books, online “experts” - offering nothing truly new and nothing that creates lasting change.
- Going to couples therapy or seeing professionals - who use limited knowledge, are biased, or offer advice that doesn’t get to the root cause of your challenges.
- Figuring it out yourself - laying awake at night, worried to the pit of your stomach, adding stress, anxiety and sleeplessness to your full life. Feeling like you’re going around in circles repeating the same habits getting nowhere fast.
Or maybe you don’t even know where to go from here?
You’ve tried so many things that haven’t helped
- Date nights, romantic getaways - perfect opportunities to be together but arguments erupt and ruin the entire time.
- Podcasts, books, online “experts” - offering nothing truly new and nothing that creates lasting change.
- Going to couples therapy or seeing professionals - who use limited knowledge, are biased, or offer advice that doesn’t get to the root cause of your challenges.
- Figuring it out yourself - laying awake at night, worried to the pit of your stomach, adding stress, anxiety and sleeplessness to your full life. Feeling like you’re going around in circles repeating the same habits getting nowhere fast.
Or maybe you don’t even know where to go from here?
You will be relieved to know it’s not just your relationship
You are not alone! (I’ve been there too!)
You are not alone!
(I’ve been there too!)
You’re one of many couples facing similar challenges in their relationship.
OUR WAY BACK TO LOVE - HER METHOD IS UNRIVALLED
“Elise helped my partner and I navigate through some really tough areas of our relationship in the most magical and easeful way. She taught us how to learn to communicate consciously, respectfully and with love, and helped us delve deeper into how we could better all areas of our relationship so we could truly thrive as a pair. Her method is unrivalled - she creates a safe and sacred container for both individuals to thrive and connect. It is obvious she truly cares and is highly trained and well-equipped to serve in this space. During a time where we felt like giving up, Elise helped us find our way back to love.”
Courtney ~ Journalist
OUR WAY BACK TO LOVE - HER METHOD IS UNRIVALLED
“Elise helped my partner and I navigate through some really tough areas of our relationship in the most magical and easeful way. She taught us how to learn to communicate consciously, respectfully and with love, and helped us delve deeper into how we could better all areas of our relationship so we could truly thrive as a pair. Her method is unrivalled - she creates a safe and sacred container for both individuals to thrive and connect. It is obvious she truly cares and is highly trained and well-equipped to serve in this space. During a time where we felt like giving up, Elise helped us find our way back to love.”
Courtney ~ Journalist
You’re one of millions of couples being affected by the Modern Relationship Epidemic.
Statistics reveal since COVID19 there have been increased divorce rates, higher levels of conflict, reduced satisfaction and commitment, that’s also leaving you misunderstood, disconnected, and craving deeper intimacy and conscious love.
I call it the
“Lackluster-Love Loop”
which came to me staring out the window one wintry morning in 2009 as I nursed a hot cacao and my freshly broken heart.
It’s the constant eat, sleep, repeat cycle of “we’re fine” or “they’ll change” accompanied by empty “I love you’s” and same old behaviour. As you continue wishing for a miracle or just one of your efforts to work and sustain the change you long for.
Meet your Therapist
Hi, I'm Elise!
Hi, I'm Elise. I know the Lackluster-Love Loop very well. I too had different, hurtful, tearful, unfulfilling relationships before. I’ve also been told it’s enough to have passion and happiness at the start that only dwindles or even crumbles. To have a relationship that is safe and familiar but doesn’t make me feel loved, valued or seen for who I truly am. That consistently coming third or fourth after my partner’s career, other people in their life and priorities is still pretty good. I too have laid awake with my heart aching and hurt, worried to the pit of my stomach. Questioning: Will we work? Will he change? Where is this going? Does he even love me? Is there a better way of doing this? What are truly effective techniques that could help? I had no idea and I was desperately wanting better guidance for myself at these times.
Looking back, not only did I not have any wise, compassionate counsel from anyone who'd created their own successful long term relationship. But also, I didn’t know how to express and communicate how I was feeling unloved, not a priority, not part of a team or even a connected couple. And even worse! I didn’t know it was also up to me to share what I wanted FAR beyond the surface level every day. I longed for and I yearned to be held in a tender embrace, seen to my depths, heard for all I had to share and prioritised like I was magic - because just like YOU, I am too. I had zero idea how to put this into words. Inside was like an emotional rollercoaster that I was riding, pained and alone.
But! These painful relationships stirred inside me a desire to create a better way of life for myself and for others. To have the kind of conscious, loving, intimate, even transcendent relationship that I longed for.
This was years of information, knowledge and wisdom gathering before I dedicated my life to this work and learnt how to create romantic connections on the psychological, physical/intimate, emotional, mental and spiritual levels and more in my current relationship. Which is more conscious, loving and intimate and has transcended all the other relationships I had previously.
I’ve never said this before, BUT it’s because we are committed to each other, heart and soul in life and in love even within the chaos of the outside world. And we’re united in both the little and the big things. Any time there is a disruption or conflict we always come together in deep love and communication and continue to preserve the sacredness of our loving union.
AND I choose to invest in this relationship while also having a career as an Integrative Therapist, Conscious Relationship Specialist and Eastern Wisdom Practitioner, being a hands-on mum and continuously furthering both psychological and eastern wisdom studies (as I believe I’m a student for life!).
Meet your Therapist...
Hi, I'm Elise. I know the Lackluster-Love Loop very well. I too had different, hurtful, tearful, unfulfilling relationships before. I’ve also been told it’s enough to have passion and happiness at the start that only dwindles or even crumbles. To have a relationship that is safe and familiar but doesn’t make me feel loved, valued or seen for who I truly am. That consistently coming third or fourth after my partner’s career, other people in their life and priorities is still pretty good. I too have laid awake with my heart aching and hurt, worried to the pit of my stomach. Questioning: Will we work? Will he change? Where is this going? Does he even love me? Is there a better way of doing this? What are truly effective techniques that could help? I had no idea and I was desperately wanting better guidance for myself at these times.
Looking back, not only did I not have any wise, compassionate counsel from anyone who'd created their own successful long-term relationship. But also, I didn’t know how to express and communicate how I was feeling unloved, not a priority, not part of a team or even a connected couple. And even worse! I didn’t know it was also up to me to share what I wanted FAR beyond the surface level every day. I longed for and I yearned to be held in a tender embrace, seen to my depths, heard for all I had to share and prioritised like I was magic - because just like YOU, I am too. I had zero idea how to put this into words. Inside was like an emotional rollercoaster that I was riding, pained and alone.
But! These painful relationships stirred inside me a desire to create a better way of life for myself and for others. To have the kind of conscious, loving, intimate, even transcendent relationship that I longed for.
This was years of information, knowledge and wisdom gathering before I dedicated my life to this work and learnt how to create romantic connections on the psychological, physical/intimate, emotional, mental and spiritual levels and more in my current relationship. Which is more conscious, loving and intimate and has transcended all the other relationships I had previously.
I’ve never said this before, BUT it’s because we are committed to each other, heart and soul in life and in love even within the chaos of the outside world. And we’re united in both the little and the big things. Any time there is a disruption or conflict we always come together in deep love and communication and continue to preserve the sacredness of our loving union.
AND I choose to invest in this relationship while also having a career as an Integrative Therapist, Conscious Relationship Specialist and Eastern Wisdom Practitioner, being a hands-on mum and continuously furthering both psychological and eastern wisdom studies (as I believe I’m a student for life!).
On my journey to a Conscious, Loving, Intimate, Transcendent relationship, I learned 3 things that were essential for couples like you shifting from surviving to thriving:
- They had to have a psychological understanding of BOTH themselves AND each other. Knowing their own and their partner's unique dispositions, qualities and values - the way their partner actually sees the world - is what brings about the SOLUTION to their relationship problems.
- Only working on sex techniques alone DOES NOT solve intimacy problems. Better, loving, intimate, conscious sex is a combination of solving both EMOTION AND INTIMACY problems separately.
- All relationships can get better with time. And I like to think of this like fine wine. Relationships, however, decline unless we ascend them and put some effort in. Yes, some effort, it's true.
It took me years of learning, testing, and tweaking to figure out how to be in a thriving long-term relationship.
I’d love to help you have the same.
Using my unique proven method seamlessly combining the past hundred years of psychology with thousands of years of eastern wisdom and my decades of personal & professional experience I’ve created a modern science and eastern wisdom-backed approach to help couples everywhere shift from surviving in the Lackluster-Love Loop to Thriving in a Conscious, Loving, Intimate Transcendent Relationship.
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“EXCEPTIONAL! GROWN OUR SPARK BACK!!”
Geoff - “With two young kids the spark can be pushed aside but … we’ve been able to reconnect and grow our spark back! Reflect on how I am as a father and with that as a lover to my wife who’s the mother of my children. Thank you Elise, it’s been very fulfilling, helpful and definitely given us tools and grown our spark back which has been lovely. If you’re looking for help to get that ignition and open a path for communication, of deeper love, definitely give this a go!”
Bec - “This definitely is a course that gives you strategies, ideas, scenarios to have a lot of deeper conversations - conversations we haven’t had before, even having been together a long time! Thank you for this course!”
Bec & Geoff
INCREDIBLE LEADERSHIP THROUGH RELATIONSHIPS – SHE’S THE WOMAN
“I want to recommend Elise Carr and her incredible leadership through relationships. I’ve known Elise for 10 years. She has been a huge part of my journey in becoming the woman that I am today, to speak up openly, communicate with my boyfriend-now-husband. She really put us on the trajectory of working on our relationship, having deep, honest, open conversation and communication. I highly recommend - if you are looking for someone to support you through your own journey with your own self, relationship or with your partner, she’s the woman.”
Heidi Anderson - PR Coach & Publicist
“TRULY ONE OF A KIND…AMAZING…WE COULDN’T ASK FOR A BETTER COURSE!”
“It's been amazing for us - sparking a lot of conversation and intimacy. It was so educational, uplifting and illuminating! The portion on Daily Love Moments. Hold on to them and practice them because those are especially, in our day to day lives being busy, those are really moments that you can value, celebrate every day and look forward to. Scheduling intimacy was one big thing for us as well. Making it sacred…that's something we’ve incorporated and we look forward to continuing because it does make a big impact and we know it's that time for us as - this beautiful practice of putting time aside for you as the union, is incredible.
She did a fantastic job of structuring the course where you start out with the psychological, move on to emotions, intimacy and then love and wisdom. You're really working to understand yourself so that you can show up for your partner but also yourself. It felt like an excellent progression. I couldn't ask for a better course. Opening with that personality test especially - seeing the measurable portion and then knowing where we need to focus our attention for that other person and to be there to support that other person. Thank you so much Elise thank you for being able to support so many people and have couples that can really love and elevate together. We loved it so much.”
Diana & Jordan
“WE DIDN’T REALISE HOW MUCH DEEPER WE COULD GO”
“I completed Elise’s “Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love” program and I can’t recommend this enough. We communicate really well and are very loving to each other BUT we didn’t realise how much deeper we could go with the right questions and tools Elise teaches us in the program. We indeed had some issues that we had to talk about and become clearer on what we needed and wanted for ourselves individually and as a couple. I am so grateful we did this program together.
Even though I loved learning at our own pace online the support we could ask Elise personally was very valuable. I ended up having 1:1 conversations with Elise and am so impressed with her wisdom, and safe and loving space that she holds. I highly recommend this program to any couple who are having issues at the moment, and those who are also happy. This program would be amazing to go through more than once, asking our partners the questions to check-in and see how much the relationship has evolved.”
Yoko ~ Raw Chef, Business Owner & Author
BACK ON TRACK WITH MY MARRIAGE
“The way Elise translated how I was feeling to my husband made me feel fully understood and supported ... I feel back on track with my marriage and more emotionally connected to him. Elise is amazing at being able to engage both men and women in her style, and I loved her intuitive approach.”
Stephanie
~ Entrepreneur, Business Owner & Muma
BACK ON TRACK WITH MY MARRIAGE
“The way Elise translated how I was feeling to my husband made me feel fully understood and supported ... I feel back on track with my marriage and more emotionally connected to him. Elise is amazing at being able to engage both men and women in her style, and I loved her intuitive approach.”
Stephanie ~ Entrepreneur, Business Owner & Muma
Introducing
28 Day Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love
THE COMPLETE
RELATIONSHIP PROGRAM
THE COMPLETE RELATIONSHIP PROGRAM
Blending cutting edge Psychological Sciences & Ageless Eastern Wisdom: assessing unique psychological dispositions, conscious communication & problem resolution, emotions, sex, intimacy, wisdom teachings & higher learning for sacred relationships.
It is NOT a quick fix surface level course, but a thorough proven process. Requiring shifts and changes psychologically, emotionally, intimately.
You will learn what most couples will NEVER know.
Delivered through online teaching videos, audio, printable PDF’s and a 96 page accompanying go-to manual.
You will have community and support to connect, share and keep you on track.
"During This LIVE Presentation
We'll Show You The Funnel AND Help You To Customize It For Yourself So You Can Start Generating More Of Your Dream Clients By The Time The Web-class Is Over!!!"
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step #1
THE CONNECTION BLUEPRINT
Uncover the science-backed method to finally see the unspoken dynamics shaping your relationship to truly understand each other to your core; ending toxic arguments, breaking the reactive cycle AND bringing about THE SOLUTION to your relationship problems.
You cannot understand or be understood until you are taught your and your partners Unique Personality Dispositions, qualities and values - the why behind how you both: act, react, think & feel. THIS is what will Awaken your CONSCIOUS connection and align you as an unshakable couple.
step #2
THE INTIMACY IGNITOR
The Second Secret key that's really missing from your relationship to have the most LOVING and INTIMATE sex is first solving your relationship problems with STEP 1# THEN Solving BOTH your emotional problems AND your intimacy problems together.
You will not only have an intimacy breakthrough shifting from a lacklustre love-life to tender, passionate love, but you will ignite the deepest emotional connection possible.
step #3
THE FOREVER FLAME
Learn the secret wisdom to go beyond and TRANSCEND just staying together or stagnating in ‘we’re fine’ mode, to instead create a love that is fulfilling, continuously deepens and grows in ways you never thought possible, for life.
Apply the Ancient Eastern Wisdom Teaching: including sacred sexual practices.
Hello Cosmic Love!
But even I know a process is useless without step-by-step guidance to implement and the support to see you through to completion.
PROCESS + GUIDANCE + SUPPORT
=
28 Day
Deeper Intimacy
& Conscious Love
A 28-Day Guidance Course for couples ready to shift from disconnected to awakening deeper intimacy and conscious love & finally have the relationship they deserve.
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INSIDE THE COURSE
What we will cover
Module #1:
PSYCHOLOGICAL: Relationship Reset
Reset your relationship on DAY 1 by uncovering your Unique Personality Dispositions (UPD) - your Personal Relationship CONNECTION BLUEPRINT - to finally understand the unspoken dynamics shaping your relationship & truly know and understand yourselves and each other in ways you have never before: the way you each see and experience the world, why you fight the way you do, feel, think, behave the way you do. This is a psychologically proven, scientifically calculated assessment. Written and formulated by us based on clinical psychological studies.
Module 1 Benefits:
- The ‘UPD’ CONNECTION BLUEPRINT uncover the unspoken dynamics shaping your relationship & truly know & understand yourselves and each other in ways you have never before.
- Reconnection for Fierce Presence with each other. Learn the psychological approach to bridge vulnerability and communication like you haven't shared before
- END Heated Arguments. Know the what, when, how, and why of problem resolution to ensure all the upset, headache and wasted time that’s exhausting you can finally end!
- The Problem Resolver. Be Guided from Toxic Arguments to Conscious Communication + Problem Resolution.
Module #2:
EMOTIONS: From Frustrated to Calm Closeness
Move from a storm of upset ruining your relationship to feeling present, calmer, closer and happier together. Through psychological and Eastern wisdom practices, tools and techniques.
Module 2 Benefits:
- The Anger, Anxiety and Low Self Esteem Buster: To create personal growth & inner calm while feeling truly safe to be vulnerable with your beloved.
- Emotion Shifting: From feeling fiery, worried and insecure or low self-esteem to being Present, Calmer & Happier together.
- Experience the power of Ageless Eastern Wisdom practices to feel lighter, calm that recalibrate your entire body, mind and mood.
- The Heart Mind Toolkit: Navigate your emotions and mind set to go from upset and overwhelmed to connected and deeply committed.
- Emotional Processing: Learn THE most powerful practice to permanently drop the emotional/mental baggage of your entire life so far and not collect any more moving forward.
Module #3:
INTIMACY: The Beautiful Connection Creator
Reconnect to where you were at the start or create the tender, passionate & soulful feeling you've always yearned for. This will set you apart from struggling couples. Because effective, conscious communication is the bedrock of intimacy. And without it you’re building a relationship on a house of cards, any little gust of disturbance will blow it all down.
Module 3 Benefits:
- The Art of Conscious Communication: Goodbye yelling, upsetting and hurtful conversations hello feeling heard, seen, understood and lasting harmony.
- Beautiful Connection Creator: Through the magic combination of conscious communication, vulnerability and intimacy practices re/create a new world of deep connection and trusting bond.
- Intimacy Ignitor: From ho-hum or nothing at all to creating Body, Heart & Mind based Intimacy you long for - organically leading to Better Sex.
- The Harmony Sweet Spot: Harmonise and balance the rushing, list ticking, getting things done with slow, present, connected, tender together moments as a thriving couple.
Module #4:
LOVE: Lacklustre to Loving Sex
Rekindling and Sustaining Love - these multi-faceted and detailed sacred insights and practices will guide you to create and maintain your love life as you move from lacking and disconnected sex to loving, sacred sex.
Module 4 Benefits:
- Touch, Feel, Explore: Feel your way to full body Love.
- Get Juicy & Deep: Learn each others Sacred Erogenous Hot Zones and go from unsatisfied to the point of overflowing!
- The Artful Keys to Pleasure: Turn Sex into Sacred Pleasure.
- Sacred Sanctuary: Co-create a space for Play, Pleasure & Pure Love. Turn your bedroom into a place of passion, love and intimacy.
Module #5:
DEEPER LOVE: Sacred Sex
Anyone can have sex, not everyone has experienced sex as sacred. Having laid the groundwork in the LOVE Module you are ready to go where many couples may never, by learning the ancient Art of Sacred Sex - A Daoist Qigong Practice.
DEEPER LOVE Benefits:
- The Healing Method: Experience Qigong as Medicine
- 3 Part Warm-Up: Take your foreplay from 'good' to golden
- The Main Dance: Transform love making into a Body, Heart, Mind, Spirit merging
- Sacred Guidance for Ultimate Pleasure: Where you BOTH experience a new level, together.
- Learn The Art of Moving Sexual Qi/Energy
- Learn Advanced Sexual QiGong
Module #6:
HIGHER WISDOM: The Transcendent Relationship
Simply curious or truly longing to venture into higher levels of relating... This Higher Wisdom component ensures that no matter how far you have come you can still further create Relationship as Spiritual Practice to Flourish for Life like an Eternal Flame of lasting love.
HIGHER WISDOM Benefits:
- Relationship as Spiritual Practice: Go from Connected to Cosmic Love
- The Forever Flame: Be taught the Missing Link to Lasting Love
- The Three Aspects of Being: Learn how to shift you entire perspective of life, love and everything in between
- The Relationship Change Catalyst: Leave where you are for the Relationship Promised Land
- Communication ‘Communion’: Where every conversation becomes a Flow State
- Creating Loving Presence: Discover the key to Relationship Longevity at every age and stage
After only 4 weeks,
YOU COULD FEEL LIKE DAISY:
"MAJOR BREAKTHROUGH WITH MY BELOVED"
“Following Elise’s advice, I had a major breakthrough with my beloved that has resulted in both of us feeling heard, seen, loved, and actively committed to taking the steps we need to keep moving forward in greater harmony. I can literally feel the vitality and joy returning to my body, heart, and mind.”
Daisy ~ PhD, Counsellor, Yoga & Meditation teacher
After only 4 weeks,
YOU COULD FEEL LIKE DAISY:
"MAJOR BREAKTHROUGH WITH MY BELOVED"
“Following Elise’s advice, I had a major breakthrough with my beloved that has resulted in both of us feeling heard, seen, loved, and actively committed to taking the steps we need to keep moving forward in greater harmony. I can literally feel the vitality and joy returning to my body, heart, and mind.”
Daisy ~ PhD, Counsellor, Yoga & Meditation teacher
What You Get
Sign up today to receive these BONUSES!
Bonus #1
Loving Reconnection
Guided Practice
Be guided through a transcendent practice to see, sense and feel loving reconnection. This is a practice that many couples love to go back to time and time again.
Bonus #2
10
VEILS
The self-paced book and accompanying journal for your personal inner journey to awaken sacred union. The exercises in this are utterly invaluable and have helped individuals around the world transform within themselves to then better transform their most intimate relationship.
Bonus #3
Morning Alignment
Meditation
Meditation is backed by modern science and created by ancient wisdom. Start your day right; feeling calm, connected and harmonised with this simple, short and soulful guided meditation audio as it effortlessly leads you through a complete mind, body, heart, soul alignment.
Bonus #4
Members Only Access:
Online Group
Access to private members only online group support – Invitation and membership to join other couples just like you in a safe space where you can share and learn from others’ relationship journeys too.
Bonus #5
Lifetime Access
(take your time)
Lifetime access to the 28 Day Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love Guidance Course for couples. For as long as this is online and running - and I intend on that being a loooooong time - this course in its entirety is for you to take your time with, come back to, revisit and truly sit with and dive deep into.
Course Access
28 Day Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love
(course + video training)
($1997 Value)
Bonus #1:
Loving Reconnection
Guided Practice
($68 Value)
Bonus #2:
10 VEILS
($99 Value)
Bonus #3:
Morning Alignment Meditation
($49 Value)
Bonus #4:
Members Only Access:
Online Group
($119 Value)
Bonus #5:
Lifetime Access (take your time)
($997 Value)
Total Value $3,329
"EXACTLY WHAT WE WERE BOTH NEEDING"
“… everything is so amazing! … this became exactly what we were both needing.
We have been enjoying each other so much since. Taking everything that you offered on board and the connection is beautiful! Thank you so much for your beautiful and loving support. It was what was needed.”
Laris ~ Coach & Leadership Consultant
STILL GOT QUESTIONS? WE'VE GOT THE ANSWERS!
Frequently Asked Questions
What if one of us works away or does shift work? Can we go at our own pace?
Absolutely you can go at your own pace! Whether you work shift work, you or your partner travels, or life is simply full—this course is here to meet you both where you are.
While I recommend a 28-day flow to spark momentum to get the results you are longing for sooner, you can take 6 weeks, 6 months, or move through it in your own rhythm. Even if one of you moves ahead at times, that’s okay too.
There’s no expiry. No lockout. You’ll have lifetime access (as long as it’s online), and the practices are designed to fit into real life—without needing hours you don’t have.
The techniques within the course don't require a lot of time. You just need the right guidance. Which you’ll receive here.
What if my partner isn't as excited as I am about this?
You can lead the way. By starting the course, you're not only deepening your self-awareness, you're taking a powerful, loving step toward your relationship’s growth. Something that you know is needed and deeply wanted right now.
As you share the insights you're gaining, how it’s shifting your perspective or the ways you're applying the wisdom, skills and tools, your beloved may naturally become curious. Your commitment to growth can be the catalyst for transforming your partnership.
The course is self-paced, so you can move through it solo now, and invite your partner to join you later—or revisit it together when the time feels right.
Real change starts with one open heart. Let it be yours.
Is this possible in 28 days?
You might be thinking, “You can’t fix a relationship in 28 days.” And you’re right—you may not PERFECT it in that time.
BUT from Week 1 alone, with the psychological module and your UPD assessment, couples experience powerful shifts in how they understand and relate to each other.
You’ll then build on that with three more foundational modules and a fifth for deeper, conscious love and beyond with the wisdom module. Many couples are surprised by what’s possible in 28 days—and since the course is self-paced, you can take the time you need.
Can we afford this?
If you’re feeling disconnected, alone, or resentful—toward your partner or even yourself—you’re not alone. But staying stuck comes at a high cost.
Leaving a relationship can cost thousands financially—not to mention the emotional toll, especially with children or shared assets. But staying as is can cost even more: your growth, your joy, your dreams for love, family, purpose.
This isn’t just about saving a relationship—it’s about choosing growth, healing, and possibility for both of you.
You can see this as investing, in not only your relationship and gaining the true connection you long for, but both growing individually and as a couple.
An investment now can transform everything.
Is this the best use of our time and money?
Committing to this course will save you time, money, and heartache.
No more counselling sessions that go nowhere, wasted date nights, or empty advice from so-called online “experts”. Most offer the same surface-level tips. This course is different.
To cover the same 5 key areas with a holistic psychologist trained in both Western psychology and Eastern wisdom - if you are lucky to find one - you’d easily spend over $4,000—and 200+ hours.
I created this to give you real depth, without the wasted time or cost.
Do we need to know how to meditate? And have a psych degree?
Definitely not. The eastern wisdom and spiritual practices are simplified, so no meditation experience needed.
And with the UPD and other tools, you won’t need a background in psychology either. It’s all designed to be easy, practical—and even enjoyable.
Like couples said, they even had a few laughs along the way. You don’t have to take it all too seriously to get real results.
What makes this course different?
Blending BOTH proven psychological methods with ageless eastern wisdom, versus courses which only focus on clinical routine relationship basics with no heart and emotional support OR pseudo-spiritual courses that have you sitting in eye gazing, ‘balancing’ your energies but never solving the root problems.
You need both a mind and heart approach in order to create lasting change and bring about the depth and intimacy you long for, and this course does just that.
We’re already seeing a counsellor / therapist should we add this too?
It is very rare to find a professional who is trained in both western psychological sciences and eastern wisdom, who can ALSO cover everything that you will in the Course.
A couple said to me “There is no therapist like Elise who integrates and bridges the Western Psychological Sciences AND Eastern Wisdom Practices & combines that for you in the 5+ key areas” of:
- 💭 Psychological,
- ☺ Conscious Communication,
- 😘 Emotions,
- 😍 Intimacy (including sex),
- 🥰 Love,
PLUS
- 💕 Deeper Love
- 🌷Higher Wisdom of relationship as spiritual practice.
So, 28 Days to Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love goes far beyond conventional therapy—combining decades of personal and professional experience with powerful, practical tools and wisdom in one transformative course.
You’ll gain access to a unique, wise, heart-led approach to the relationship you truly desire
You can absolutely continue seeing your therapist if that’s working for you—some couples do this alongside the course, while others shift direction once they begin. You’ll know what’s right for you once you start.
Do we have to start now? What i'f we're going away? I’m not sure we’re ready for this!
The choice is yours. Start today, or stay where you are.
You deserve more than “we’re fine.” You deserve closeness, tenderness, joy, intimacy—and the know-how to keep growing together.
✔ All bonus content
✔ Lifetime access
✔ 50% off full payment
But if you sign up today, you can also receive:
This course is the roadmap to deeper intimacy and conscious love. It gives you the tools, love-wisdom, and support to turn things around—starting now with the self-paced design to work around your life.
Keep hoping things will change on their own, Or take the first step today toward real transformation.
If you're feeling disconnected, stuck in cycles of arguing, lacking intimacy, or wondering if your relationship will make it… the time to act is now. You can either:
Don’t wait—because waiting feeds fear. The “right time” rarely comes. And the longer you delay, the louder fear, resistance, and excuses get—talking you out of what your heart truly wants.
How much time do we need each week?
A little time consistently = a big shift in your relationship.
Every couple is different, so how you move through it will be unique to you. What matters most is prioritising even the small windows. Because not making time now will cost more—emotionally, mentally, and even financially—later.
Whether it’s 10 minutes in the evenings or a couple of hours on the weekend, the course is completely self-paced to fit your lifestyle. You don’t need hours every day—just consistent small windows of time.
Is 28 Day Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love for us?
If your heart aches for more: connection, understanding, love—this is for you.
You’re tired of hurtful toxic arguments and feeling misunderstood.
You want to break the cycle of pain, tears, anger, and finally feel seen, heard, and held.
Your relationship feels shallow or distant.
You crave real intimacy—a loving glance, a gentle touch, a spark that reignites your passion. You want conversations that awaken your mind and heart, not just surface level chat or arguments about chores.
You feel unappreciated, unsupported, or unloved.
If you’re carrying the weight of making things work and still feel empty or alone, you deserve more.
You long for physical, emotional, soulful closeness.
Whether you miss tender touches, passionate sex, or simply want to feel desired again, this is for you. If you lie next to your partner feeling invisible or emotionally starving, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to stay stuck.
If you’re ready for deeper love, real intimacy, and a relationship that truly nourishes you, this is your invitation.
What is the impact on your life & the real cost to stay as you are now?
Even if things seem okay and you’re both comfortable, do you crave that lost spark or a deeper, lasting connection? Do you want to experience new levels of intimacy and keep that passion alive for life?
Ask yourself:
What’s the true impact of staying where you are? What’s the real cost of settling for “fine” when you could have flourishing?
Only you know what this is truly worth to you and your relationship.
If you’re ready to take action, the 28 Day Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love Couples Course is for you. You’ll be challenged, inspired, and supported every step of the way.
Don’t wait—your chance to transform your relationship is here, but it won’t last so don't miss out on joining us.
Still Unsure?
Still Unsure?
You Can’t Get Back Time.
Most of us spend without thinking—on dinners, events, weekends away. And while those can be wonderful, if you're doing them to escape the discomfort of your relationship, they can become bandaids… or worse, painful memories when the night ends in disconnection or arguments.
You don’t get another chance at this anniversary.
You don’t get back that weekend spent hurt or distant.
Time doesn’t replenish. When it’s gone, it’s gone.
So ask yourself what is it truly costing you to stay where you are? Not just financially… but emotionally, mentally, spiritually?
When your relationship is strained, it impacts everything—your self-esteem, home life, work, even your health. Investing in this course gives you back: clarity, intimacy, joy, and time well spent.
Love. Connection. A future that feels safe and rich in intimacy...that’s a return you can’t put a price on.
The real question is “What will it cost us if we don’t take action now?”
You Can’t Get Back Time.
Most of us spend without thinking—on dinners, events, weekends away. And while those can be wonderful, if you're doing them to escape the discomfort of your relationship, they can become bandaids… or worse, painful memories when the night ends in disconnection or arguments.
You don’t get another chance at this anniversary.
You don’t get back that weekend spent hurt or distant.
Time doesn’t replenish. When it’s gone, it’s gone.
So ask yourself what is it truly costing you to stay where you are? Not just financially… but emotionally, mentally, spiritually?
When your relationship is strained, it impacts everything—your self-esteem, home life, work, even your health. Investing in this course gives you back: clarity, intimacy, joy, and time well spent.
Love. Connection. A future that feels safe and rich in intimacy...that’s a return you can’t put a price on.
The real question is “What will it cost us if we don’t take action now?”
“Deeply loving, conscious relationship”
“Not only does Elise bring years of varied and vast training, skills and wise teaching, she brings her personal experience of a deeply loving, conscious relationship of over a decade. She’s also a mother and gets an entire side of life many don’t know about and can’t authentically understand.”
Fran, Bowen Practitioner & Muma
“COMPLETELY CHANGED THE WAY I VIEW MY HUSBAND AND HAS HEALED SO MUCH UNNECESSARY HURT BETWEEN US. EVERYTHING BECAME CLEAR.”
"Beautifully deep, wisely guided through, ...perfect in every way. What was a big insight for me was understanding mine and my loved one’s ‘unique personality disposition’. I suddenly realised I had had 28 years of ‘misperception’ and then, the ‘if only I knew THIS earlier’ moment hit that could have right sided my view from the beginning. This was HUGE. It allowed me to view myself and my disposition with more awareness and kindness. The experience has completely changed the way I view my husband and has healed so much unnecessary hurt between us. It’s like I turned the light on and everything became clear.
Charmaine - Educator
“THE PERFECT PARTNER TO HELP COUPLES LEVEL UP THEIR RELATIONSHIP”
"After nearly 20 years as a couple, working with Elise has been a timely refresher on all aspects of being in a loving relationship. The start was powerful and gave us new insights, even after all this time. Elise's clear communication, warmth and genuine care make her the perfect partner to help couples level up their relationship - and it's definitely something we would recommend to others wanting to feel greater connection in their lives together."
Travis & Natalie
“OPENED MY EYES TO SOMETHING GREATER. I’D RECOMMEND THIS TO ANYONE IN A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP”
"Opened my eyes to something greater - Just some of the things I learnt: Opening up and having difficult conversations. How to initiate more when it comes to intimacy and foreplay…The use of subtle physical touch really does make a difference. Making schedules for 'us' nights/days. The use of meditation. Having a sacred bedroom... This is a great way of keeping any healthy relationship up to date and consistent. I'd recommend this to anyone who is in a long-term relationship. We think we may know it all but there's still so much to learn and take away. Thank you, Elise for this wonderful opportunity."
Kirill - Artist
“A CHANCE TO DEEPEN THE CONNECTION”
"Elise’s guidance is thoughtful, intuitive, and deeply empowering. Her unique approach seamlessly blends spirituality with modern psychology, offering a balanced perspective that feels both grounding and expansive. Her guidance offered us a chance to deepen the connection, providing useful tools and insights to grow together and inviting us to uncover areas of potential new growth. We absolutely recommend this to any couple seeking to nurture their bond, whether in a challenging season or simply wanting to cultivate more meaning and depth."
Dimitra & Stirling
“ENGAGING, LOVE-FILLED … IT FELT LIKE ELISE WAS THERE WITH US EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. ALL COUPLES CAN BENEFIT FROM THIS COURSE!”
"We really connected, actively prioritised learning more about ourselves, each other and our relationship. We were able to get out of our comfort zones, have some laughs, feel challenged and realise areas where we can continue to improve and grow as a couple. The course is very professional. It’s obvious Elise is an expert in her field and has so much to share. The course is easy to follow and filled with bite size pieces of expert knowledge, couple’s tips, activities and challenges that we were able to work our way through amongst busy and sometimes opposite schedules. The videos were engaging, love-filled and it felt like Elise was there with us every step of the way. We also loved the couples UPD assessment in week one and learnt how understanding our own and each other’s unique personality traits, can help us to better understand each other and communicate effectively in moments of heightened emotion or disconnect. We will definitely be referring back to the course videos & manual as needed and would 100% recommend that other couples prioritise connecting on a deeper level, with Elise there to guide you. Even if you aren't feeling disconnected, all couples can benefit from this course!"
Felicity & Michael
“HELPED US DEVELOP & GROW… RECONNECT ON A MORE EMOTIONAL & DEEPER LEVEL…AND MORE SPIRITUAL LEVEL”
"Elise has helped me personally to grow within myself as well as in partnership with my husband. My husband and I worked through areas in our relationship and life which helped us develop and grow. After seeing Elise a few times individually we decided to do the couples course as we thought it would be very beneficial. We found the format was flexible, to progress at our own pace. Each module included reflective questions or activities that encouraged us to apply what we were learning to our own relationship. It gave us opportunities to have open conversations and work through important development activities. There were also some deeper dives into intimacy, connection and communication, which helped us reconnect on a more emotional and deeper level. Within this course Elise provides lots of real-life relatable examples to illustrate key points. I highly recommend the couples course to reconnect your relationship on a deeper and more spiritual level. Thank you Elise for your guidance and support."
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